Goin' thru the big "D" and I don't mean Dallas!

There really isn't anything funny to say about Divorce. It is the most heart wrenching experience anyone can have.



Sometimes divorce is a mutual thing. Both parties involved want it. It may be amicable, it may be nasty! But it still vary hard for all involved.



Sometimes it is a midlife crisis. (Bad)

Sometimes someone just needs to "find" themselves. (Makes you wonder what they expect to find)

Sometimes people just fall out of love. (Unfortunately this happens far to often)

Sometimes someone cheats. (The Ultimate Betrayal)



I have a very dear friend who is going thru a Divorce. She is lost. She is hurt. She is mad. She is sad. She is crushed. She feels like she is unworth of being loved. All of these things are very valid feelings. She will be ok. She WILL survive this. She will move forward with her life and be a better person because she has loved someone unconditionally.



Seeing her go thru all of this heart ache just makes me feel awful for her. Seeing her hurt and knowing that you can't fix it. I have tried to be a good friend. I have been there when she needed someone to talk to. I have sent cards. I have prayed (which I very rarely do) for her to be whole again. I have thought about her and her children often.



I hope she finds peace and happiness. I hope she takes the time to heal. I hope she finds out she is an amazing women.

Grateful for my boring ass life!!!!

So I have a very near and dear friend (who will be known as Hot Mama from here on out) who is being screwed!!!! Her partner (who will be known as DUMBA$$ from here on out)of 8.5 years decided that she no longer wants to be with her. She decided that she was "in love" with someone(who will be known as BIOTCH) else... ok that is a well and good... but this someone else is Married... TO A MAN!!!!

Hot Mama is being very strong. She has her moments of weakness, but that is ok. We are all weak sometimes. It makes you a better person in the long run. She is much nicer to Dumba$$ than I would be.

But here is were I am grateful for my boring ass life, My Husband is way to lazy to go out and find someone to fall "in love" with. So I am pretty sure he won't cheat on me or leave me. But let me tell you this, if he ever does... his balls wont be leaving with him. They will be in a jar on the mantel.